Murder In The Heartland Part 29

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From Springdale, Lisa and Carl left the Mormon Church and moved to Bartlesville. But they didn't stay long. Soon they were waking up to glorious New Mexican sunrises, and sinking their toes in sand as soft as velvet.

A friend of Richard and Judy's had asked Lisa and Carl to take care of some acreage he owned. He had a horse. Some cattle. A few dogs. And a house. The only obligation on Lisa and Carl's part was to pay their own bills: water, electric, food. It was an idyllic situation.

The kids recall their stay in New Mexico as one of their family's best times. Their father worked long hours to support the large family, while Lisa was a stay-at-home mom.

Before they arrived in New Mexico, while still in Bartlesville, Carl found out Lisa had run into an old boyfriend. "But I was told she pushed him away...and said she was in love again with her husband, had remarried, and was working on rebuilding her family." That sat well with Carl. He felt Lisa was serious about building a new, stronger relations.h.i.+p. "We weren't walking off into the sunset together, or anything like that," Carl remembered. "But I believed she wasn't being unfaithful anymore. As a plus, we heard there was work and cheap real estate in New Mexico."

Soon, those long talks Lisa and Carl had shared when they first met began again. They wanted their marriage to work-not just for the kids, but for themselves.

In what might have been a sign of things to come, Carl woke up one morning, walked outside onto the porch to enjoy the sunrise, and ran into a rattlesnake coiled up like a garden hose.

Soon after they settled, Lisa started working for a local newspaper, delivering inserts. Then she got her own newspaper route.

"That's when the old habits started to emerge. Lisa started to want to be more than what she was," Carl recalled.

In fact, Carl said, a few weeks after Lisa started working, she began hanging around a local bar, the Adobe Deli, after completing her paper route. And their troubles returned.

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As the children grew older, Carl and Lisa continued working on their second marriage, in New Mexico. During the spring of 1997, Carl sensed something, a faint undertone maybe, about the entire family, especially as Lisa started spending time at the Adobe Deli. Putting up with Lisa's old habits wasn't something Carl could do anymore; he had promised himself as much the day they moved to New Mexico. Carl was working long hours contracting mobile homes and delivering newspapers with Lisa. He didn't have time to keep watch on his wife. He had to trust her, or let her go.

As Carl told the press at the time, Lisa started "having affairs" in New Mexico "not long after we made the move."

What hurt Carl most was that the guy was a friend; Carl was helping him do some work on his house. ("I taught him how to tape and texture, put up Sheetrock.") It wasn't just this one guy, Carl insisted. "There were several. Things got worse than they had ever been."

And now they were married again.

For the kids, New Mexico provided some of their most vivid memories of their mom and dad together.

"t.i.tanic was the last movie we all-Dad, Mom, Alicia, Rebecca, and Ryan-saw together as a family," Kayla said. She loved it. She felt close to her siblings and parents.

Around this same time, the kids started calling Lisa "Martha." It was an odd nickname, considering her middle name is Marie. But the kids had good reason for it.

"One day we were all in the car with Mom," Kayla remembered, "and we were talking to her, and we were all trying to get her attention at the same time." With all four of them talking at once, trying to be heard, calling Lisa "Mom" wasn't working. "So we just began calling her 'Martha' when we really, really wanted her attention."

Carl ended up moving out of the house into a small apartment nearby. He just couldn't kid himself into believing they would ever have a chance as a couple again.

After three months, Lisa convinced him to move back into the house for the sake of the children.

"She was hanging out in a bar all night long and tagging the kids along," remembered Carl. "I had to move in to make sure my kids didn't grow up inside a bar. They were being neglected."

Carl tried setting some ground rules until he and Lisa could figure out how to end the second marriage and move on.

"I am so out of here," he told Lisa one night. "I'm not going to be your stooge again and again."

"Yeah, right! You're not going anywhere, Carl Boman." She laughed.

"Huh. Is that what you think?"

"You aren't taking the kids...and you'll always hang around because of the kids, Carl."

About three days after one of their arguments, Lisa went to Carl and said, "Run down to the pharmacy and get me a home pregnancy kit."

Carl looked at her...What is she talking about now? "Come on, Lisa. Be real. I'm not wasting money on a home pregnancy kit."

"No, no, no. I'm serious. I haven't had my period in weeks. It's really late."

"No, Lisa! I'm not going to buy you that."

"Carl. Go get it."

"Your tubes were burned. You can't be pregnant."

Lisa became more serious: "Sometimes it doesn't work. It doesn't always stay that way."

"Come on, Lisa. You're kidding me, right?"

"You don't know what you're talking about," raged Lisa. She stormed out of the house, slamming the door, and went to the pharmacy herself.

An hour or so later, she returned with the pregnancy test kit.

When it turned out negative, Carl did everything he could to stop himself from saying, "I told you so."

"d.a.m.n it, Carl." She shook the thing and started yelling. "These things aren't always right, you know."

Carl believed this episode was the beginning of Lisa's obsession to become pregnant again. Knowing the pregnancy test was negative, she still went back to the bar and told people she had become pregnant by sleeping with Carl's friend.

Word trickled back to Carl, of course, that Lisa was claiming to be pregnant. Carl laughed when a mutual friend stopped by the house and told him what she had been saying.

Carl decided he'd finally had enough. He was taking two of the kids and heading back to Oklahoma. It was over. No more would he be "suckered" into taking Lisa back. He knew he could not drag her into court and get custody of the kids. His only option, to make sure the kids were taken care of, was to leave Lisa in New Mexico, knowing she would follow him northeast to Oklahoma or Kansas, wherever he decided to settle.

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Judy Shaughnessy received a call from one of Lisa's attorneys on Thursday night, November 17, 2005, but she wasn't home. David Owen left what she described later as an unsettling message: "I'm calling to tell you about the deal yesterday. Call me back."

After hearing Owen's voice, Judy had a hard time sleeping. She wasn't a newspaper reader or television watcher. Lisa wasn't talking to her, nor were many in the family. She wasn't keeping up to date on the status of Lisa's court case, and now worried that something "bad" had happened. Although their lives together had been filled with aberration, anarchy, and unhealthy behavior, not to mention yelling and screaming and fighting, Judy insisted she still cared deeply for Lisa.

"I think it was right after Christmas in 2002, Lisa and I went to Oklahoma to pick up her children, and I also had another granddaughter with me and we all went to Texas to my sister's house."

They spent the day together as a family going to the Alamo, the Boardwalk, and a few other historical landmarks.

"We had a great time. When my sister Ann was in the hospital, Lisa was there for me. The day my sister died, Lisa came to the hospital and stayed with me and helped me cope with the loss. At the funeral, she didn't have much to say, [but] she carried herself very well. Over the last few years, I noticed how she distanced herself when the Montgomery family was around, because I think she was telling them stories I knew to be untrue, and she was afraid I would tell them if they said something to me. So this is why they distanced themselves from me and my new husband. I know the kids love their mother and they should. I know they went a lot of places together, and they did have fun with her. It wasn't all bad."

The next morning, November 18, Judy called David Owen and heard him confirm what she had since found out on the Internet: the government was going to pursue the death penalty. According to Judy, that was the "deal" Owen was speaking about on Judy's answering machine the previous night.

"No matter what, Lisa is my daughter. I do love her. It just hurts so bad. I have to pull myself together...."

When Judy's mother died in 1996, Lisa dropped everything and showed up with two of her children. "She was a big help to me then, too. It's almost like she went in spurts. But all in all, Lisa did have good points, and I just don't want anyone to think she has been evil, or whatever people are saying about her. I know Carl and [his second wife] would say how evil she was all the time. But I don't think Vanessa took the time to know her. I think Carl influenced the way she thought about Lisa. I still have this thing about Lisa having a split personality because it's like she's good and then the opposite happens. Who knows? I don't. I wished I could be stronger now. Back when it all happened, I lost weight, and I couldn't eat and couldn't sleep."

As the Christmas season dawned, all Judy could do, she said, was hope and pray for the best.

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In February 1998, Carl drove back to Bartlesville with Alicia and Ryan, leaving Lisa in New Mexico with Rebecca and Kayla. Lisa said she would be leaving New Mexico about a month later and moving to Kansas. Judy was remarried and living in Topeka then. At least Lisa would have someone to fall back on when she needed help with the kids. They agreed Carl would get custody of Alicia and Ryan, and Lisa would get custody of Kayla and Rebecca. One weekend, Carl would take all four; the other weekend, they would go to Lisa. It seemed like a fair deal to Carl; after all, he would never take her back again.

"I was finished. For real this time."

According to Carl, the handshake deal he made with Lisa before he left New Mexico was a sham. Lisa finally made it to Kansas and moved in with Judy and her new husband, but not before stopping in Bartlesville to grab the other two children.

"The lawyer she had held on to the papers I sent him to dispute the custody," said Carl, "and I had no chance of being heard."

Lisa was ultimately awarded custody of all four children. Carl claimed she used a friend's address and phone number and lied on court doc.u.ments to make it appear as if she lived in New Mexico, where she had filed.

By the time Lisa arrived in Kansas, Judy had moved on to another relations.h.i.+p and was living with Danny Shaughnessy, whom she would eventually marry. When Judy left her husband for Danny, Lisa was on her own again.

"She couldn't handle the kids alone," recalled Carl, "so she came and stayed with me for a while." In order to make sure the children were taken care of, Carl once again took her back in. "It was okay, because that meant the kids would be with me, too."

In 1999, Lisa began a job as a security guard in Topeka at a wire manufacturing plant, where she met-and soon became involved with-Kevin Montgomery, who was working at the same plant.

Kevin was a happy-go-lucky divorce who had spent his entire life in Melvern. When he met Lisa, Kevin had just ended a broken marriage, in which he'd fathered three kids.

Those who knew Kevin during that period claim that when he met Lisa, she viewed him as a p.a.w.n she could manipulate without complication. "He was a pushover," one former acquaintance said. "She saw that right away and used it to her advantage."

"Mom always talked bad about Dad to Kevin," recalled Kayla. "Like, she would say she always had to buy our food and stuff...but that isn't true. My grandmother [Carl's mom] is the one who did all the cooking, cleaning, and shopping. Not my mom."

According to Carl and Kayla, as soon as Lisa moved in with Kevin later that same year, she launched a concerted effort to destroy Carl's reputation as a father. Instead of praising Carl for opening up his home when she needed a place to stay, while she underhandedly filed for divorce and sole custody of the children, Lisa attacked Carl's character behind his back and initiated a series of lies that would have an impact, ultimately, on both their lives.

"It was a pretty rotten and awkward time," remembered Carl. "When she lived with me, but was dating Kevin, she used to write Kevin letters quite a bit. I found a few of them and-being curious, nosy, and maybe even wrong-read them. She told Kevin once that she was pregnant and didn't know if she wanted the baby because they weren't married."

It was another fabrication designed to trick Kevin, Carl insisted. Kevin's parents, Lisa learned quickly, were a churchgoing couple who believed unreservedly in the church and its values. Lisa used the moral fiber the Montgomerys held so closely to their hearts as an a.s.set. Carl believed that if Lisa told Kevin she was pregnant and threatened to go to his parents with the news, knowing they would disapprove, she felt she had Kevin exactly where she wanted him.

"Kevin actually gave her three hundred dollars to have an abortion," confirmed Carl, "according to what I was told."

To add more legitimacy to her argument, and perhaps play on Kevin's sympathies, Lisa named the child Sarah. It was the name Kevin and his previous wife had chosen for their stillborn child, who was buried in Melvern.

Reading the letters proved to be an education for Carl in just how far Lisa was willing to go to wield control over the new people in her life.

"She had even told Kevin she'd had a daughter by [her stepfather after he raped her] and the state had taken the child."

Kevin, like any man, at the mercy of a woman he was falling in love with, "believed it all," maintained Carl.

Moreover, as she became part of the community of Melvern, Lisa played off the town's compa.s.sion, positioning herself as a poor little divorcee who'd had a rough go of it with a man she described as a deadbeat dad who didn't want to do anything for his children.

"Lisa began telling everyone in Melvern she had to buy groceries and clean the house when she was staying with me," said Carl. "The kids and I got a kick out of it. She never did a thing. She told members of my family I was trying to sleep with her while she stayed with me. What a joke! I had to give her money to go back and forth to Kansas to be with Kevin, and let me tell you, it was well worth the investment. We were divorced, and I made sure she knew it. Imagine your ex-wife living with you, and she is making up lies about you, and has a boyfriend that lives one hundred and fifty miles away. It was very uncomfortable, to say the least."

While Lisa was living with Carl during that period, Carl said they talked a lot. "Remember, we had been together for about fifteen years by then, we had four kids. We had a lot to talk about. But still, she felt she had the upper hand."

To put it bluntly, Lisa talked about Lisa, and how great Kevin was going to be for the kids.

"I actually felt sorry for Kevin then."

Kevin had gone through what he described to Carl and Lisa as a "bad divorce." Carl saw that he was vulnerable, and Lisa was "filling his head full of garbage."

"I didn't want him raising my kids," Carl said. "Heck, I didn't want any man other than myself raising them. The kids and I were extremely close at the time; we were each other's world."

Strangely, for a woman who had often proclaimed her undivided attention and devotion to her kids, after she moved out of Carl's and into her own apartment not far away, Lisa never wanted to have the children over.

On weekends, Kevin would drive up from Melvern and stay with Lisa. To integrate the children into her relations.h.i.+p with Kevin, she would pick them up at Carl's and take off with Kevin, but only for a few hours. "Never for an entire weekend," Carl said.

It was not only a culture shock for the children when Lisa and Kevin moved into their own place in Melvern, but an emotional shock as well. They had adjusted to a way of life with Carl in Bartlesville. Friends. After-school activities. Little League. Soccer. Moving to another state was not easy for thirteen-, twelve-, eleven-and ten-year-olds.

To the kids, it hadn't mattered that Carl and Lisa were in the middle of a divorce; what mattered was that they were all together as a family again before Kevin came into the picture. Now their family was gone-and some new man was taking their dad's place. Lisa's relations.h.i.+p with Kevin was clearly serious. She was already talking about marrying him.

"We actually did things together as a family," said Carl, speaking of the year when Lisa and the kids lived with him. Kayla also recalled the time as one of the more memorable, pleasant periods of their lives together-but also one of the worst.

"When we lived with Dad, whenever he got paid, he would take us to Wal-Mart and let us get a new Barbie, or something like that. On Sat.u.r.day nights, we would have our 'family night.' We would get all this junk food, get a board game out, and we would all sit together and just be a family."