The Ultimate Student Chapter 2621

Chapter 742: Self-abas.e.m.e.nt or Self-esteem? ( 1)

"Sis, I think you're in a bad mood?"

Ji Feng asked.

Li Yantong's expression darkened. She only shook her head and didn't say anything.

Seeing that, Ji Feng could not help but ask: "Sis, did something happen? You won't even tell me? "

"Don't ask!" Li Yantong couldn't help but shake her head, "About this... You won't be able to solve it either. "

"You haven't even said it yet, how do you know I can't solve it?" Ji Feng laughed, "It may be a problem for you, but for me, it might be easy to solve it. Right? "

"Sigh …"

Li Yantong still didn't say anything, only glancing at her mother.

Ji Feng was slightly surprised. From the looks of it, Auntie Li seemed to have something to do with this matter?

He suddenly thought of something. This was most likely related to his sister's relations.h.i.+p problem. The last time he came, the mother and daughter duo didn't have a good relations.h.i.+p relations.h.i.+p with Li Yantong.

"Little Feng, don't ask her, I'll tell you."

Sure enough, Li Yueqin couldn't help but say, "Your sister's mood isn't good because she did something wrong and was criticized by me."

Li Yantong said in annoyance, "Mom!"

Li Yueqin ignored her daughter's gesture and said, "The situation is like this. Last time I told you, your sister had already broken up with that person called Liu 30, but she was the one who lied to me. I later discovered that she and Liu 30 were still secretly dating!"

Hearing this, Ji Feng could not help but look at his sister Li Yantong, but he was not too surprised. This was because Li Yantong had told him the last time he came, that she was in contact with Liu Thirty. Furthermore, the last time Ji Feng came, he coincidentally b.u.mped into Liu XXIII, who was begging Li Yueqin to agree to his matter with his sister.

But from the looks of it, this matter had been discovered by Li Yueqin.

"Then... What do you think? " Ji Feng asked.

"My thoughts are still the same as before. That guy called Liu 30 isn't bad, but he's not suitable for your sister." Li Yueqin said, "So, I'll let them split it."

"Mom!"

Li Yantong said in a displeased tone, "Do you know Liu Thirty?"

Li Yueqin replied, "I don't need to know him. Little Tong, although Mom doesn't have much knowledge, she has lived half a lifetime anyway, and has seen all kinds of people. I don't mind that guy called Liu 30 being poor without money or anything else, but with his personality, I really don't like him!"

"But …"

Just as Li Yantong was about to speak, she was interrupted by Li Yueqin.

Li Yueqin said, "Little Tong, it doesn't matter if I like you or not, because the most important thing is for you to find the target. "Of course mom understands that, but this Liu 30 is really not suitable for you."

"Why?!"

Li Yantong said, "Could it be that, like you said, because of his personality, you feel that it's inappropriate between the two of us?"

Li Yueqin said, "That's right."

"Then you're being unreasonable!" Li Yantong said huffily, "Mom, Liu 30 has a very strong personality and is very aggressive. I really don't know why you are dissatisfied with him!"

Li Yueqin sighed, "Little Tong, don't tell me that what I told you isn't clear enough? That young man Liu 30 was everywhere good, but he was too self-conscious! People who feel inferior to others will always feel weak in their hearts. Self-inferiority brings about selfishness as well. If you live together with such a person, you will definitely not be happy in the future! "

"What do you think a self-abased person is like in life?"

Li Yueqin said, "Perhaps on the surface, such a person has a strong sense of self-esteem, but are you sure that he can clearly distinguish between self-esteem and inferiority? A person with an inferiority complex may have had his sensitive nerves triggered by an unintentional sentence or any other trifling matter in his life. The result is either a quarrel or a cold war! "

"One or two times is good, but what if it's too many times?" Li Yueqin asked, "As time pa.s.ses and the number of times is increased, the relations.h.i.+p between you will become weaker. Then, what will be the final result?!"

Li Yantong listened in silence.

However, looking at her expression, it was hard to believe.

As Ji Feng watched, he couldn't help but sigh. On this point, he felt that Li Yueqin was right.

Of course, up until now, he had only met Liu Thirty once, and neither of them had spoken a single word directly. Therefore, Ji Feng couldn't tell if Liu Thirty-Six was feeling inferior or not.

But if Li Yueqin was right and said that he was being treated, then Liu Thirty was indeed someone who felt very inferior to her. Li Yueqin was right to stop her sister from being together with him!

A person with a strong sense of inferiority would usually express a strong sense of self-respect on the surface. However, when such a person was communicating with others, they might just inadvertently say a few words that touched their sensitive nerves.

Some people with special inferiority complex may even do extreme things at some point, and this often happens.

Thus, on this point, Ji Feng was more inclined to Li Yueqin's method.

"Sis, do you really know Liu San?"

Finally, Ji Feng opened his mouth and said, "I don't know much about this person, but there is one thing. I feel that no matter what, you are my aunt's only daughter. She won't harm you right?"

Li Yantong said, "Little brother, that's not what I meant, but... "My mom really doesn't know Liu 30. He isn't as self-conscious as she says!"

"And if so?" Ji Feng asked.

"If..."

Li Yantong shook her head and said, "This kind of thing is, if it isn't, then it isn't. What if it is?!"

Hearing this, Li Yueqin immediately wanted to speak. Ji Feng hurriedly gave her a look, hinting her not to speak, and then said, "Sis, let's take a step back. If this person called Liu XXIII is not very self-conscious, then think about it carefully, is he a very confident person?"

Hearing this, Li Yantong could not help but be surprised. Ji Feng's words surprised her, because she had never considered it in such a way.

Li Yueqin couldn't help but feel slightly surprised. She didn't think that Ji Feng would put it this way either, but she quickly understood what Ji Feng meant. She couldn't help but secretly nod her head.

Seeing that his sister was still in a daze, Ji Feng laughed, "Sis, let's think from another angle, is what auntie said right? A person with a strong sense of inferiority would usually display a strong sense of pride. This is relative, because a truly confident person would not care about the slightest bit of verbal abuse or suspicion from others. "

Seeing Li Yantong's pensive look, Ji Feng continued, "Sis, think carefully. When you were dating Liu 30, did he have any sensitivity in certain areas, such as when you were talking about money, or the future, or any other aspects? Did he have any feelings that he would show when you talked about that issue?"

"He …"

Li Yantong opened her mouth, but she didn't know how to reply. However, seeing the slight change in her expression, it was obvious that she was moved by Ji Feng's words.

Seeing this, Li Yueqin was secretly delighted. She really did not expect that Ji Feng would actually persuade Li Yantong.

She naturally understood her own daughter the best, even though Li Yantong was usually very weak, she was also very stubborn in her heart. For example, she had already strongly opposed her daughter's relations.h.i.+p with that person called Liu 30 before, but who knew that her daughter was still secretly in contact with him.

But now, with Ji Feng's guidance, Li Yantong seemed to be showing signs of loosening up!

"Sis, think again. Does Auntie do this for your own good?" Ji Feng asked.

"I know that too, but what she did on this point was a little wrong. She objected before she understood anything. It's too overbearing!" Li Yantong said somewhat helplessly.

"Then why did Auntie object?" Ji Feng asked.

"Isn't that the reason she said that just now? She said that she felt inferior to Liu 30!" Li Yantong said.

Ji Feng shook his head and laughed, "That is not the most basic reason! Actually, the reason why Auntie objected was because she loved you and was afraid that you would be harmed! Actually, Auntie can totally do whatever you want. If you say yes, then good. If you choose anyone, then she'll say okay. That way, she won't make you feel disgust or hate, but why would she stop you? … … Am I right? "

Li Yantong was silent for a moment.

She looked at her mother and saw the wrinkles on her mother's face. She couldn't help but think back to when they had been dependent on each other in the Cloud Mountain, and how much her mother had loved her. Her eyes couldn't help but turn red.

"Sis, you're right to insist on your choice and want to fight for your love." Ji Feng continued, "Auntie, you wanted to stop me. You want me to take care of it for you, that's not wrong either, but why is things like this? Who was wrong? "

"..."

Li Yantong could not help but be stunned. Yes, who was wrong?

She said, "Yes …" "Liu 30 was wrong?"

Ji Feng shook his head and said, "No, it's because your method of dealing with the problem was wrong!"

Li Yantong was once again taken aback. She didn't understand what Ji Feng meant.

Ji Feng said, "Let's put it this way. Auntie believes that Liu XXIII is a self-abased person, so she naturally has her own reasons. Auntie has a very rich life experience, so she will definitely be more accurate than you. Sister, do you admit this?"