Lit_ A Memoir Part 29

The next morning I come down about dawn, and she's on the back porch in the saggy yellow seat of an old director's chair, the final pages flipped over to the back. She's staring at her bare feet.

She glances up to say, I can't believe I was such an a.s.shole.

You suffered the torments of the d.a.m.ned.

But you saw that, didn't you? All that time I thought I was so alone. I wasn't alone at all, not with you and your sister. I must've done something right. You both turned out so magnificently.

We're a lot of fun to be with, I say. The shoulders I put my arms around are small as a schoolgirl's. You did a lot of things right, I add.

When Lecia's turn comes, she meets me in Denver, renting a vast sofa of a car that I wheel through mountain pa.s.ses while she turns pages. The child-abuse tour, she jokes it is, for my agenda is to double-check my words against the old landscape or school records or anybody we can drag up. But to say she's skimmed over events I couldn't forget is an understatement. She knows what happened enough to verify scenes, but it's all been packed away. She didn't have to go into therapy, she's always claimed, because I told her the insights that my own therapy had routed out. Keeping the volume down made her the brave one, the unflinching one.

In the mountains while Lecia reads, we revisit the town that held the summer cabin neither of us can find. We stand alongside the falling-down ring where our horses ran a gymkhana. We find the house where Mother left us with the stable owner's family when she ran off to marry the bartender. There's the phone booth alongside a trout pond where we once called Daddy sobbing because we'd forgotten Father's Day.

Each time we recognize a spot, it's like some book's clear overlay page falls across the old landscape, the green scene rising up articulately around us-a 3-D pop-up. We get littler at those times, standing closer like we used to as kids, and the hoots and hollers we've been making to stay brave-those dwindle down. We dwindle down, two women almost gone into girls again.

In the car, Lecia slides on her sungla.s.ses, saying, I almost thought I'd dreamed this place up. But you've gotten down every dot and t.i.ttle.

She cheers the ma.n.u.script with all the big-sister praise she brought to my first step off the high board, and that pat on the head matters more than any review I'll get. I'd only really wanted her and Mother not to be p.i.s.sed off.

Midafternoon, I steer the car across the Rockies to the town where Mother's bar was and where we went to school. That place left the most shadowy specters in Lecia, since it's no doubt where she gave up being little once and for all. The day she called Daddy collect and announced to him that he had to buy us plane tickets to get us out of there, some light in her clicked off. Doing that meant bailing out on the mother she'd spent her whole young life courting and placating. We flew from there wondering if we'd see Mother again-alive or dead. There was no visitation plan, no schedule of phone calls set up. Just my ten years' sister with the round-eyed, gla.s.sy gaze of an opium addict, as she set the big black phone in its cradle before telling me we had to pack.

We get closer to the town, and Lecia starts rifling her purse for hand unguents and lip gloss and chewing gum. She wants a c.o.ke. She wants to stop and check in with her office by pay phone. I'd expected all this. The motel we booked-a Norman Batestype Econo-lodge-has the only vacancy this last minute. At the check-in counter, the pinwheel mints have melted into their wrappers, their inner whirls gone smudgy pink. The TV doesn't get cable, and the bathroom sink has a tiny cup of the type dentists give you for antiseptic. In the dusty windowsills lie papery gray moths.

Sliding off her shades, Lecia peels back the flowered spread and stares down at a rough blanket the color of mustard. I was going to take a nap, she says, but there must be all species of bed louse here.

So when I head off to find our grade school, she shoulders her ma.s.sive purse like a duffel bag, saying, Let's march.

We're not heading into battle.

War'd be easier for me, she says, and she follows me into the blinding suns.h.i.+ne.

It's strange. She's always been our navigator. You could lower her into a jungle with nary a compa.s.s, and she could machete her way out. Yet here, I have an uncanny sense where things lie. There's no map in my head either, just my torso leaning one direction or another. I follow a path straight as a spear to the pale brick schoolhouse, which now houses town offices. The heavy door closes behind us, and we're sealed in with the odor of floor wax.

As we look up the short stairway leading to a wall of coat hooks, it so exactly matches my recall that I feel a shock. It happened It happened. Lecia seems enervated all of a sudden. She wants to go back to the motel, see if we can find something halfway decent to eat.

I knew this would be hard for you, I say.

She stares at me with cool brown eyes, saying, Then why the f.u.c.k did you bring me here?

Back on the main drag, tourists are gleefully buying fool's gold and Indian arrowheads and turquoise earrings. The house we lived in burnt to the ground, we find out. A neighbor lady doesn't recall us, but she names the princ.i.p.al who lived across the road. Maneuvering back to the hotel, I walk us smack against the bar Mother once owned-a gift shop now. Or I claim it's the same bar. Lecia says it isn't. h.e.l.l no.

(I remember one day at the bar: A horse had thrown Lecia, and she showed up with a broken collarbone, the sharp edge poking the thin flesh. Her blond hair was tugged back in a smooth ponytail, and her round eyes were dry of tears. Mother told her, Go stand under the wall dryer till it feels better. Does anybody have an aspirin? Go stand under the wall dryer till it feels better. Does anybody have an aspirin? n.o.body did, so I stood alongside her, the hand dryer blowing its hot wind on her clavicle.) n.o.body did, so I stood alongside her, the hand dryer blowing its hot wind on her clavicle.) On Lecia's big black sungla.s.ses, the bar's doorway floats as if projected across a blindfold. She says, This isn't it. Let's go. She's rooted before the door as if a force field holds her back.

I point to the pink stucco hotel where we first stayed before Mother bought the house. We walked there with snow on our hooded fur coats.

Back and forth we quibble. Still she refuses to go in. She'll wait on the curb while I check with the shop owner. Yes, it used to be a bar, the lady says from her rice-powdered face with crinkles around her smiling eyes. Her capped teeth are big as chiclets.

I step inside, thinking, How much smaller the large places are once we're grown up, when we have car keys and credit cards. This was a harmless little gin mill once.

The clerk confirms the layout in my head, that the bathroom is over there, and I push into the small gumball-blue room. There's the spot where a wall dryer once hung. The raw hardware of its back plate faces across from a modern paper-towel holder.

In some ways, I'd relived the history of that place in the pages, and while I'm not dead to the psychic damage done here-there's a twinge of sadness for us all-the place can't overwhelm me anymore.

On my way out, I glance up at a hammered tin ceiling. Soon as I see it, the pattern fits in a similarly jigsawed s.p.a.ce in my memory. I could've drawn it by heart-the filigreed squares and sprouted vines. I reel back, and for an eyeblink's time, the small structure looms as large as it once did when our young mother sat sipping vodka by the window. I can see her slim in her gray pencil skirt and white crepe blouse, legs crossed, one pump near-dangling from a toe. The old grief has been mostly drained off in me for a long time now, and I'm awestruck by her grace. You're so d.a.m.n pretty, I'd tell her if she'd turn around.

I step back out into the suns.h.i.+ne, saying to Lecia, Check out the tin ceiling.

She holds out her hand like a blind girl, and I take it. C'mon, I say, and though it's rare for her to follow, she lets me tug her in. On this expedition only, I'm point woman. One hesitant step she takes, as if afraid to get too close to a cliff edge, then another, till she's a few feet inside. She cants her wondering face up at the ceiling, then gasps, a hand covering her mouth. It's not a small breath but the lung-deep, sucked-in huff you'd take, say, finding a rat running the baseboards of your kitchen.

Outside in the sunlight, I keep holding her hand. Though her eyes are devoid of feeling, fat tears stream down, and she curses me for dragging her to this G.o.dforsaken place-me with my f.u.c.king therapy and pa.s.sion for the old c.r.a.p. I didn't know it'd be this hard, I tell her. Inside, I'm p.i.s.sed at myself for buying her don't-give-a-d.a.m.n act when I knew better. I tell her it's good we can face this place together, good that she got us out of here when she did.

Within the hour, I'm shepherding that vast chaise longue of a vehicle back toward the far side of the mountains, where she's secured a thousand-dollar-per-night hotel room for us because there are no other rooms at any inns, and the sun can't set on her in that town.

She grabs my hand in the car, palm to palm and tight, like we're fixing to bound off the pool's edge together.

Yes, she finally admits in the car, that was the place.

I recount to her how Mother told me she was surprised we didn't have fun in the mountains. Lecia shakes her head.

The next day at the airport, she kisses my hair and holds my hand and says she loves the book and what a bang-up job I did, but she's not in her eyes anymore. When I look at her, I see her at age eleven. Months from now, once she gets the bound galley, she'll read it and marvel that the opening works better with the scene of Mother at the fire, which is the exact same chapter she'd read in Colorado. The publisher set type from it, but she hadn't remembered a d.a.m.n thing from that first draft. Was I sure that was written in the version she saw? I was.

41.

It Makes a Body Wonder I am only a man; I need visible signs...-Czeslaw Milosz, "Come, Holy Spirit"

Toby faces my mental block about not believing stuff from the Bible by pointing out that with my current spiritual construct, only stuff that happens to me firsthand counts as divine intervention. With total faith, I cling to the notion that G.o.d sent me-little Mary Karr, sinner deluxe-checks in the mail and healed my severely depressed head, got me car loans and a grant. I use the G-word now-G.o.d. I feel Him holding me when I'm scared-the invisible hands I mocked years before. But this same power couldn't turn water into wine or-here's the biggie-raise the dead, could it?

It's kind of like, Toby says to me at his glossy dining room table one afternoon, not believing in Bob Dylan because you've only heard the CDs and never saw him in concert. (Again: What is your source of information? What is your source of information?) Based on my experience, I say, I am the center of the universe.

Lord help us, Toby says, pulling the corner of his mustache.

The magic stuff is what runs me off, I say. Sometimes I think of Jesus as some carnival trickster. Maybe the whole Resurrection was a scam. Like some televangelists saying, Send me a dollar and put your hand on the TV screen and I'll heal you Send me a dollar and put your hand on the TV screen and I'll heal you.

Toby tells me how being Christian during the Roman occupation was (as scams go) not so lucrative. The followers weren't rich guys but riffraff-tax collectors and wh.o.r.es.

So let's say Jesus was sincere. Maybe it's the Church. Maybe Paul's the big fakir.

You think Paul's conversion made him some rich cult leader? That's a laugh. He essentially resigned a CPA job to ride with the h.e.l.ls Angels.

Early Christians, he tells me, partly won converts by going to death singing. I mean, a lion is eating your face and you're singing. Or you're crucified upside down and you're singing. It's undeniable that some experience changed them from the normal consciousness. Maybe they were hypnotized, brainwashed. Aren't suicide bombers gleeful?

h.e.l.l, maybe I've gone nuts already, I tell him, though no small number of people-including mental health professionals-can attest that I'm saner and happier than before I went Navy SEAL on the spiritual front.

However much I balk at Christian miracles, I think friends manufacturing secular miracles-me included sometimes-is loonier. Like Deb thinks her wind chimes tinkling are messages from her dead ex-husband. You mean to tell me, I say to her on the phone, you don't believe in the Resurrection but you think Richard controls the wind?

If Jesus isn't (a) crazy, (b) a false prophet or con man or (c) his disciples weren't, I have to at least consider the fourth possibility: that (d) some of those miracles had some foundation in fact. Somebody saw something remarkable.

Once you allow even that sliver of possibility, that crack of light, it's not long before the stone rolls away from the tomb.

Right before Easter, as our church gears up to baptize and confirm newcomers, I'm still-metaphorically speaking-staring down from the airplane door, wondering whether my parachute will open if I step out.

At one point Toby asks me, Why haven't you taken communion at any of the churches you've visited when you travel? Those priests don't know if you're Catholic or not.

The idea shocks me, and I say so.

Why not? He has a mischievous grin on his face.

That would defile the Sacrament, insult the belief of all those people in church who're committed to the faith.

So, he says, that is sacred to you?

It was, is.

In the end, no white light s.h.i.+nes out from the wounds of Christ to bathe me in His glory. Faith is a choice like any other. If you're picking a career or a husband-or deciding whether to have a baby-there are feelings and reasons pro and con out the wazoo. But thinking it through is-at the final hour-horse dookey. You can only try it out. Not choosing baptism would make me feel half-a.s.sed somehow, like a dilettante-scared to commit to praising a force I do feel is divine-a reluctance grown from pride or because the mysteries are too unfathomable.

In the back of a dark church on Holy Sat.u.r.day, I sit between Dev and Toby. In the pews, everybody holds an unlit candle, and the priest comes in with the altar's mega-candle. Stopping at the back row, he touches its taper to the charred filament on either side of the aisle. The flame's pa.s.sed one to another until we're all holding fire in our hands.

Not long after, Walt calls after a longish silence. He'd been nursing s.h.i.+rley through her long battle with cancer. And other than seeing them at their son's wedding, I'd been in scant touch till her death. On the phone, I tell him how-in conference with an obstreperous student-I was about to snap at the kid when it dawned on me that he was Huck Finn. See, I say on the phone, how I'm still channeling you?

How is finding Huck Finn in your office channeling me?

Don't you remember telling me that unless you knew what was in my head, you couldn't get Ernst Ca.s.sirer in there? Knowing the kid was Huck Finn let him be who he was with me.

I remember reading Ca.s.sirer with you.

And that little rat you took care of after she'd had her babies?

There were so many of them, he says.

I tell him how my students keep shape-s.h.i.+fting into characters from novels. A shy, disheveled farm kid was the young stable boy Wart about to pull a sword from a stone and become a king. A flushed sorority girl who hung a ball gown in a dry cleaner's bag from my doorjamb while she spoke transformed into flushed young Kitty hoping to dance the mazurka in Anna Karenina Anna Karenina.

You're one of the big reasons I believe in G.o.d.

You see the irony, he say, for his father had been a minister, and he was a rationalist to his core.

You may be a G.o.dless f.u.c.k, I say, but-what was it your colleague said-You give secular humanism a good name?

You give Christianity a good name, he says.

Walt's strangely pleasant about my being a Catholic, though I get a snippy postcard from a novelist I know who says, Not you on the pope's team. Say it ain't so Not you on the pope's team. Say it ain't so.

Only Jesus keeps eluding me. I can't help noticing that all the Catholics I look up to seem very Christos-centered. But the crucifixion has started to rankle me.

At first, I'd liked the cross. You could never bring suffering there and look up and say, Well, he didn't have it bad as me Well, he didn't have it bad as me.... But after baptism, it starts to creep me out. My Episcopalian mother brags on the phone that she reveres the resurrected Christ. She likens my church to a butcher shop.

At least there's a body on the cross, I say. There's carnality there. Protestants have this Platonic-I don't know-idea of a body. Too subtle for me. of a body. Too subtle for me.

One Sunday after church, the kids are playing in the bas.e.m.e.nt corner, and I'm studying the mangled body of Jesus on a small icon when I say to Dev-now age nine-Why the crucifixion?

He's fiddling with the knot in his shoe. What? he says. His interest in what I say is fast diminis.h.i.+ng.

Why does redemption have to come through the crucifixion? I mean, why couldn't you play hopscotch or win at solitaire?

He rolls his eyes and picks at the knot.

I'm thinking of my pal Nick Flynn, I say. He has a poem about somebody giving him Ma.s.s cards of Jesus with His heart on fire. It ends, My version of h.e.l.l/is someone ripping open his/s.h.i.+rt & saying,/ look what I did for you My version of h.e.l.l/is someone ripping open his/s.h.i.+rt & saying,/ look what I did for you.

That's funny, Dev says. He puts his shoe up so I can get the knot loose. I'm picking at it when he says, Who'd pay attention to hopscotch?

Whaddya mean? I say.

He says, I mean, the crucifixion is like Pulp Fiction Pulp Fiction (the film Mother illicitly showed him years before). n.o.body would pay any attention to some goofy song that got sung. Or if G.o.d just went (the film Mother illicitly showed him years before). n.o.body would pay any attention to some goofy song that got sung. Or if G.o.d just went poof poof over you. People get baptized all the time. It's a big miracle to wash a person's sins away. n.o.body pays any attention at all to it. over you. People get baptized all the time. It's a big miracle to wash a person's sins away. n.o.body pays any attention at all to it.

That's it! I say. It's marketing. G.o.d reaches people by giving them the only kind of gory c.r.a.p they'll pay attention to.

But Dev has slipped off his other dress shoe and run in stocking feet to join his noisy pals in their game. The bull's-eye he hits is original sin. We are a hard-to-sell people-so venal and nuts that we'll crowd into the Coliseum, jubilant to see people hacked to death or devoured by beasts. Or we'll sit drooling before comparably horrific TV images. Only a crucifixion is awful enough to compel public imagination.

Sitting there, I remember what Dev said to me after baptism: We belong to a great big family We belong to a great big family. However saccharine that sounds, it's starting to seem true to me-on good days-not just in church, either. The way stick figures show our essential skeletons, so too each skeleton is a cross buried inside. Over time, it'll come out to show who we're actually kin to.

42.

On the Road ...G.o.d I want to thankespecially, if He exists, which I believeHe does. He may not. Probably not.But I would like to thank him. Thanks.-Brooks Haxton, "If I May" (on being given a poetry prize) Dev joins the last leg of my book tour down in Texas partly because Mother's throttled the hometown librarian into hosting a book signing, which prospect niggles me. While I never set out to badmouth Leechfield or anybody in it, I sure didn't sugarcoat its charms-an opinion locals were inured to. It's not like they swanned past the oil refineries swatting mosquitoes and thinking, Isn't this place pretty as Paris? Isn't this place pretty as Paris? h.e.l.l, they know why real estate goes so cheap. They live there. h.e.l.l, they know why real estate goes so cheap. They live there.

That said, it does occur to both Lecia and me that some backwoods xenophobe might adjudge me a turncoat or carpetbagger and fancy drawing a bead on me.

We're packing for Mother's house when Lecia says, If I see the red laser light click on your forehead, I'll throw my body in front of the bullet.

Neither of us can figure why Mother's so gung ho about the whole public event, ceremony not being her forte, nor any form of pageant. Birthday cakes were sporadic. Let's skip Christmas this year Let's skip Christmas this year was a standard executive edict starting when we were teenagers. (The only holiday where Mother really kicked a.s.s was Easter. Something about ham and marshmallow peeps, the conscribed basket size, and the lower expectations inspired her-s.h.i.+ny geegaws in plastic eggs, macrame belts, a skateboard.... ) was a standard executive edict starting when we were teenagers. (The only holiday where Mother really kicked a.s.s was Easter. Something about ham and marshmallow peeps, the conscribed basket size, and the lower expectations inspired her-s.h.i.+ny geegaws in plastic eggs, macrame belts, a skateboard.... ) You'd also think Mother might shy from regaling the public with her psychotic break. But she's proud as an Eagle Scout. When she announced to me by phone that her bridge club wanted to host a private potluck for all of us after the big event, I said, What have you done with my mother?

Oh, Mary, I was always like this.

She wasn't, and that's what Lecia and I bat about as we drive-our boys lolling in back-the three hours from her house on the Gulf to Leechfield.

All our lives down there, she was the t.u.r.d in the punch bowl, Lecia gripes. Now she wants to prop us up in front of the bridge club like we're pigs at the state fair.

What's scariest, I say, is how excited I am that she's excited.